They say to go after your dreams, but what if you’re not sure what those are right now?
Let’s discern what you actually want…and then how to voice and actually (you know) go for it.
People say to write what you know.
They say to speak up for yourself.
To go after what you want.
But what if you don’t know WHAT YOU WANT TO RUN AT RIGHT NOW?
Or what if you’ve gotten the thing you THOUGHT you wanted and realize it doesn’t feel…right.
I landed in Forbes and still didn’t feel like a credible expert.
I’ve moved into stunning homes that I thought, once decorated to perfection, would bring me happiness, only to find that I put up that last piece of decor and didn’t feel the joy I thought I finally would.
I put in months of deep study, strategy and research into Youtube, only to create powerful videos and realize that Youtube didn’t feel like the right season for me after all.
Because I’m guessing you're like me.
I suspect…
You don’t want to put MORE time, energy and DISHEARTENED journaling into ideas not meant for you.
So I’ve spent the last 3 years getting deep into this question…
What if you could better suss out that aligned vision and goal you ACTUALLY desire?
For your business?
Where to live?
The new hobby to begin?
The truth:
FIGURING out & ACCEPTING WHAT WE ACTUALLY DESIRE Is 80% THE CHALLENGE THAT CREATES STUCK STAGNATION.
I’ve spent nearly a decade as a ghostwriter and strategist. That means I sit with people and ask questions to “simply” figure out who they are and what they want - so I can write it.
And this is the hardest part.
This is what challenges people.
The confidence in knowing. It’s actually so damn rare.
By asking the right nuanced questions, tried and tested prompts over time, I’ve seen people release old businesses, patterns and “shoulds” in less than 1 hour.
I’ve seen the most savvy of experts suddenly declare:
“Wait, that’s true I don’t want to offer that service anymore! Why am I still doing this?! … You know what I actually think I want to do??”
“Honestly, this is great but (if…insert reason i.e. “it would make money, if I had different kinds of clients), what I’d love to do…”
“I just put so much work into that idea and realized it wasn’t right. Now what?”
SOMETIMES, IT ONLY TAKES ONE QUESTION - PHRASED JUST THE RIGHT WAY - TO IGNITE THE EPIPHANY YOU’VE BEEN HUNTING FOR.
That’s why this is a weirdly funky non-apparent superpower I now have and wanted to package up for you in the most concise possible format for purest potency.
That isn’t a superpower just in my brain.
Yes, I’ve spent 10 years listening and sitting down with a massive number of humans on a wildly deep level and seen what it takes to get the ideas and desires people are actually then aligned with enough to publish as words.
And that’s why this is really a proven process.
The right questions can change everything.
The right questions, exercises and conversations can dig into what you thought you wanted.
This process might rip away what you thought would be on your vision board.
These probing questions may turn upside down that thing you’ve said you wanted to do forever, relaunch, do to make your parents proud, insert something you thought was “for sure” on your vision list.
But what’s on the other side?
Relief.
Ideas that you never thought would align with your identity. In fact…
You’RE PROBABLY ON the verge of SEEING the most unexpected vision that ends up far BETTER than you imagined.
What’s so possible to ignite?
The ability to word what you want to say because you’re finally clicking the puzzle pieces of what you want and how to voice it and when God comes in and clarity is there, without the shoulds, without the watering down (especially subconsciously, most of this is, and we’ll get there), it’s mind-blowing what a change in direction can do, to a view even more mind-blowing.
here is how this process works.
it is what i wish was handed to me 3 years ago, heck 1 year ago.
In a process that is deeply reflective (Mirror Mirror on the Screen) yet also is going to prompt you into conversations, practices and getting OFF THIS COMPUTER OR PHONE! For some experiments to unlock joy in order to help figure out those desires and what you want.
The process itself:
3 simple segments, broken down into 3 sections:
Discern (what you actually want)
Learn (Simmer and soak, distilling the takeaways)
Word (How to put this into words and verbalize, whether for your business or life)
It is damn hard to GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT IF you don’t FEEL THAT PEACEFUL CONFIDENCE THAT COMES WITH KNOWING FATE LAYS AWAITING YOU.
THAT’S WHY I AM SO HONORED AND GLAD YOU’RE HERE.
Even if you HAVE VISION BOARDED AND MEDITATED AND STROKED A THERAPY CAT, THIS PROCESS IS WHAT HAS LED TO LEAP AFTER LEAP IN THE MOST WILD WAYS.
READY TO SEE WHAT’S POSSIBLE?
IN AN EXPERIENCE RIVALED IN JOY ONLY BY A COSTA RICAN TREEHOUSE PARTY WITH LIZZO AND VERA WANG…
Why Me? Allison here, previously most indecisive person at the restaurant table.
In a way, there’s a simple reason I’ve been able to start a business at age 22, rock it full time growth for 8 years, move across the country to NYC with nothing but 3 bags, re-wire my life again and move to Arizona (when I’d proclaimed always I was NOT a desert person) and for the last 5 months, to be roadtripping the United States alone. Alone with my cat, having to trust my own voice and capacity, after having spent 5 years with PTSD from a car accident.
For me, the root of the ability to take these leaps, again and again, was having the ability to discern and voice what I actually wanted. To even realize I did want to move to Arizona, when I thought New Yorker would be my new title - because it really did suit me and was a heart-wrenching identity to release. To own I felt meant to road trip the United States, when so many fears (including specific, previously diagnosed traumas) had me never even see as an option.
I HONESTLY FEEL MORALLY FREAKING OBLIGATED TO SHARE THESE PRACTICES THAT HAVE SHAPED MY ABILITY TO MAKE BOLD, DECISIVE DECISIONS.
I come to you, sharing what I’ve used personally and for myself, with the hope, the goal that if it helps anyone else like it has other clients and amazing humans I’ve worked with, to see what they actually want and not spend one more day trying to be their “best self” in that vague, ethereal way, it is my freaking honor.
Welcome.
It’d be an honor to have you in Discern & Go.
It is $149.
If FINALLY releasing the feeling of stuck and finally knowing what’s meant for you feels worth more than words and something in THIS page I am passion typing to you has called to you?
YOU’RE MOMENTS FROM THE QUESTIONS THAT COULD CHANGE EVERYTHING YOU THOUGHT YOU WANTED. READY?
What’s Included
THE 3 SEGMENTS, BROKEN DOWN
Discern (what you actually want)
Learn (Simmer and soak, distilling the takeaways)
Word (How to put this into words and verbalize, whether for your business or life)
HOW DO I KNOW THIS IS FOR ME?
You have felt in a stuck, stagnant place for a while. This could be a week or two or maybe it’s been years. Not sure how to move forward into or with business. With career. With general everyday decisions or short-term choices.
You are ready to see what IS on the horizon even if it’s not at all what you are expected.
You are ready to get bold. I am known for getting different, getting “weird”. You ready to be in that with me? YEA YOU ARE!